Soon to be Navy wife, any support would be appreciated. =]?

Hmm..where to begin, well I met my hubbie and fell absolutely head over heels for him. When we first met he told me this relationship would be extremely difficult to handle. We talked for the three months he had before his leave and I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. Right now he is in training to deploy to Afghanistan,(sad face) he is a E4 petty officer and been in for two years (for those who care to know). Now I have read some posts about housing, medical, and dental but I would like to know more about how to cope with deployments, college, the necessary paper work, and ect. He is stationed in Norfolk, Va and I live in Mn, what is the best way to move my things, good support groups to talk with, websites or forums to look at, or anything like that. Military life is very new to me, rules and such im not used to. Now, I am currently in college to be an RN, and don't want to rely on him for everything, so for those who are thinking I just want to be a gold digger place your comments elsewhere. Anywhoo anything helps, thanks a bunchies, smooches.