Do you think it's wrong of me to want a rich husband?

No, I wouldn't call you a gold digger. You have your own plans and standards. But that doesn't mean that who you want will be right for you. I know rich men who are not so nice....not so nice that you wouldn't be able to live with them. So, go with who God has for you. You'll be much happier...even if you have to wash dishes while your husband is cooking dinner.